Pet Safety Guide & Resources
Understanding your pet's body language is the first step to building a safe and trusting relationship. Learn to recognize stress signals before they escalate.
Dogs:
Lip Licking
mildRepeated tongue flicks when not eating or drinking
Yawning
mildYawning in situations that are not related to tiredness
Whale Eye
moderateShowing the whites of eyes, often with head turned away
Ears Back
moderateEars pinned flat against the head
Body Freeze
highSudden stillness or stiffness in body
Tail Tucked
highTail pulled tightly between legs
Cats:
Tail Thrashing
moderateRapid back-and-forth tail movement
Ears Flattened
moderateEars pressed flat against the head (airplane ears)
Dilated Pupils
moderatePupils suddenly become very large
Hissing/Growling
highVocal warnings of discomfort
Piloerection
highFur standing on end (Halloween cat)
Crouching Low
highBody pressed close to the ground, ready to flee
When you see multiple stress signals at once, it's a clear indication that your pet is very uncomfortable. Stop the interaction immediately and give them space.
- Dogs: Whale eye + body freeze + tail tucked + low growl
- Dogs: Lip licking + head turn + ears back + body lean away
- Cats: Flattened ears + dilated pupils + tail thrashing + hissing
- Cats: Piloerection + crouching + growling + swatting
- 1Never punish stress signals. If your pet shows discomfort, respect their boundaries. Punishment will suppress the warning signs, not the stress.
- 2Supervise children closely. Teach kids to recognize when a pet wants to be left alone. Many bites happen when subtle signals are ignored.
- 3Create safe spaces. Ensure your pet has a quiet area where they can retreat when overwhelmed, and teach family members not to disturb them there.
- 4Consent matters. Let your pet choose whether to engage in petting or play. Forced affection can damage trust.
- 5Seek professional help early. If you notice repeated stress signals or worsening behavior, consult a certified trainer or veterinary behaviorist before the situation escalates.